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November 30, 2009 @ 9:18 pm

It is still 5 past midnight in Bhopal

The OPEN Magazine (to which I have taken quite a fancy owing to its insightful articles) carries this article by Hartosh Singh Bal titled Bhopal: The Other Story

On the forthcoming 25th anniversary of perhaps the biggest man-made tragedy of our country, Hartosh writes as to why the Bhopal victims are better off without the hordes of visitors who will fly in to commemorate this rather dark past.

An interesting excerpt:

If you want the truth, don’t pay attention to those who parachute in for a day or two or those who claim to understand Bhopal from London, don’t even take my word for any of this. Go to Bhopal armed with a knowledge of Hindi and see for yourself. Allow yourself a month or two in the city to see how the victims who cannot obtain the medicine they need are helped by a story on the front page of the New York Times or a book on the Booker shortlist.

Read the complete article here.

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April 5, 2009 @ 11:44 am

Copy Cat

Once in a while when summer is in full bloom, a lot of new things appear around you. On a Sunday warm afternoon, I walk out into my balcony with a cup of tea in one hand and a current affairs magazine in the other.

I don’t really read current affairs in these magazines even though I start with the idea initially. But within about 5 minutes I find myself on the Bollywood gossip pages and before I know it I am done with the magazine. Now, its not that the Bollywood gossip really interests me. It doesn’t. But I can’t really do all that heavy reading about current affairs and Bollywood gossip makes for easy reading, especially the pictures.

So, while I am finishing my last minute scan of the magazine, I hear voices of kids on the street fighting over something. I flip the last page of the magazine, glance at Katrina drinking a mango drink, pick up my cup of tea and lean on the railings of the balcony to see what the fuss is all about. I see 4 little kids, all neatly dressed in bright summery colours holding badminton racquets. The racquets are as big, if not bigger, as the kids themselves resulting in they becoming unweildy in those tiny hands. The fuss is over who should play next and whether the current player was ‘out’ or not. There is such a thing as an ‘out’ in street badminton which refers to a player making way for another due to not having struck the shuttle. The kids speak fluent English at an age when perhaps I wasn’t speaking even my native language coherently. I suppose this is what the information age is all about.

The kids then decide to stop playing badminton and instead announce loudly that they shall play “Colour Colour”. This announcement is followed by wide flourishes in the air with the racquets and the two girls in the group do a little bit of a hop and a skip in glee. I didn’t know what “Colour Colour” was all about, so I stayed on at the balcony overlooking this plan.

One of the boys, dressed in dark maroon shorts, a chequered tiny half-sleeve shirt and a colourful Mickey Mouse adorned watch (at least it looked like Mickey Mouse to me), moved away from the group, looked around, closed his eyes and said “Ok, ready.”

One of the girls screams out “Green”. And the boy shakes his head and says “No”

“Blue”
“No”

Red”
“No”

“Pink”
“No”

“Orange”
“No”

A little hop and a skip by one of the girls and then the guessing resumes.

“White”
“Yeah”, the kid smiles and feels sheepishly disappointed.

So that was what “Colour Colour” was all about. The other party had to guess what colour this boy had in his mind. While to you and me it might seem that it is so easy to fake by just changing the colour in your mind all the time, it wasn’t quite the case for these kids. They were honest in admitting what colour they had in their minds. Nice and simple. Perhaps just how life should be.

A couple of rounds into this game and now it is the little hopping girl’s turn. She thinks for a few seconds and says the customary “Ok. Ready”. The other 3 guess perhaps at least 20 colours between them but to no avail. This one is a tough one to crack and now even I start thinking of all the colours that I know of.

The 3 are now tired of guessing and they just don’t know any more colours. So they ask the girl to reveal what is the colour in her mind.
To this, she says, “Transparent” and starts doing her hopping and skipping bit in a victorious manner. The kids were not quite sure what to make of it and the little boy attempted to start an argument but stopped soon after the others readily agreed to this “colour”.

Transparent! I couldn’t help but smile. Technically this might not be right but I don’t really care. I was amazed at the amount of intelligence that these kids had at such a young age. After a few rounds of this game, they just sit down on the side of the street and start chatting in general.

The hopping and skipping girl overhears someone call her a copy cat. And she raises her badminton racquet in a gesture asking the others to keep quiet.
And then she says, “Do you know why there is a word called copy cat?”
The others just shrug, with the little boy dismissing the question by looking away from the group.

The little girl goes on to explain – “See, a cat does meow
“Now, any other cat also always does meow and nothing else. So, all cats say meow. Therefore every cat is copying each other. That is why the word copy cat.”

The rest of the kids, except the little boy, acknowledge this sudden enlightenment with a joint “Yeah, you are right”.
The boy stands up, holding the badminton racquet in one hand, and says “What ok? A dog does bow-bow and every other dog also does bow-bow. Why is it not copy dog then?”

The other 3 kids submerged his question by shouting at him and saying he doesn’t know anything. The boy just turned around and started walking up the street, dragging the racquet along with him. The little girl did a hop and a skip and the other 2 kids started doing the same.

I was done with my tea and turned around, picked up the magazine from the balcony floor and went right back inside. The things I had just overheard were far more interesting than reading the current affairs magazine, which I promptly flung on to the corner table. And then suddenly,without any warning, a feeling of being quite old in this world came over me. This world which was teeming with bright ideas and brighter questions. There was a time in my youth and early professional life when a few veterans had to make way for youthful employees like me. And it dawned on me on that Sunday afternoon that not too far from now, there would be a time when I shall have to move over and make way for something more fresh and more inquizitive. Heck, I am still on the better side of 30, managing to cling on, but I do know deep inside that the inevitable will catch up soon. The kids outside return, start playing something and then get into an argument. That brings the smile back on my face for no apparent reason. Perhaps the inevitable is not to be feared or protested against. Perhaps.

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December 19, 2006 @ 9:53 am

Back from a wonderful weekend at Bangalore. Great fun to meet up with family, the guys, relatives – all the people to whom you truly belong.

Description of my trip to Bangalore shall be written some other time; not quite in the frame to write down tid-bits of an itinerary.

Right now, after a long long time, listening to Pennyroyal tea and my mind is taken back to college days.
The only things that mattered to me then included getting my Sunny repaired, going to Eloor to pick up Kurt Vonnegut books (and other related trash like Bo Fowler!), criticising the world for no reason whatsoever, treating everything with cynicism, making gods of Salinger and Cobain and Gallagher brothers, watching every ball of a cricket test match and following it up with watching the highlights, deciding between bun-puff and idli-vada and all such grave issues.

I’m on my time with everyone
I have very bad posture

Sit and drink Pennyroyal Tea
Distill the life that’s inside of me
Sit and drink Pennyroyal Tea
I’m anemic royalty

It suddenly feels as though I am looking back at some other person who had his life busy with such inconsequential matters and had his mind all the time busy with such seemingly insignificant issues. Yet, he was happy, for some strange reason. He indeed was.

Now, its me. A different me. A me to whom Salinger and the likes no longer hold iconic images, cricket is last on my mind, my Sunny has been sold off, Vonnegut comes across as piece of trash. I have other issues, or do I? Bigger question – Am I happy?

I think some years down the lane I shall look back and say that I was happy and the current me shall complain about other issues. I think its important to be happy when you are what you are.

Never know when that moment passes by leaving you thinking you would’ve been happy.

Like I told Chilli the other day, we might be on a raft without oars, but tell you what, we don’t want to do this boating shit anymore. Let’s get back to the land.

For others who didn’t get that, my apologies.

I’m so tired I can’t sleep
I’m anemic royalty
I’m a liar and a thief
I’m anemic royalty
– Nirvana

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December 2, 2006 @ 11:05 pm

“You know why I came here?”, she asked.

“Because I wanted to escape marriage”, she said before I could chip in with a “Why?”

Suddenly, that made me wind back in time. Why had I come here? Was it for the proverbial learning? Or was it to escape from something?

The answer looks blurred now. Was I happy about having secured an admission or was I happy that I was getting out of the town for a brief period? It was a cocktailish-mix of both, probably that is why I never quite figured out what I was doing here during the first few terms.

What I did escape from was the inability to be my self back home, the inability to browse books at Landmark and Blossoms, the inability to walk up and down Church Street, the inability to watch a play…..
(An aside – I hate ending sentences with those dots signifying nothing…..)

While all these thoughts poured into the more active part of my brain, the laptop in front of me kept staring with a grim face.

“Sounds silly doesn’t it?”, she asked (or it was something to that effect) and smiled.

I smiled to myself. I wasn’t the only one who had a silly reason for coming here. Silly isn’t quite the word. But it helps to use it to make the whole thing laughable. Hopefully.

In other news, the mothers of the members of the gang met up a couple of days ago. This was quite eventful. All mothers got together, I suspect, to keep a tab on the doings of their sons. Everyone poured their heart out, I believe, about how their sons didn’t adhere to norms.

Not surprisingly, marriage was the topic discussed at length. With each son categorically refusing to do anything with that social institution, I think the mothers were exasperated and eager to devise a new plan to make these bunch of boys be more civil in the spousal sense.

I am sure the Devil must have smoked it all off and Chilli must have burst into another Rehman song with a slightly higher volume. The topic lies low for now. Until the next meeting, which as far as my secret intelligence tells me, is only a few days away.

Brave the storm, brothers. This too shall pass. One way or the other :-)

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