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April 5, 2009 @ 11:44 am

Copy Cat

Once in a while when summer is in full bloom, a lot of new things appear around you. On a Sunday warm afternoon, I walk out into my balcony with a cup of tea in one hand and a current affairs magazine in the other.

I don’t really read current affairs in these magazines even though I start with the idea initially. But within about 5 minutes I find myself on the Bollywood gossip pages and before I know it I am done with the magazine. Now, its not that the Bollywood gossip really interests me. It doesn’t. But I can’t really do all that heavy reading about current affairs and Bollywood gossip makes for easy reading, especially the pictures.

So, while I am finishing my last minute scan of the magazine, I hear voices of kids on the street fighting over something. I flip the last page of the magazine, glance at Katrina drinking a mango drink, pick up my cup of tea and lean on the railings of the balcony to see what the fuss is all about. I see 4 little kids, all neatly dressed in bright summery colours holding badminton racquets. The racquets are as big, if not bigger, as the kids themselves resulting in they becoming unweildy in those tiny hands. The fuss is over who should play next and whether the current player was ‘out’ or not. There is such a thing as an ‘out’ in street badminton which refers to a player making way for another due to not having struck the shuttle. The kids speak fluent English at an age when perhaps I wasn’t speaking even my native language coherently. I suppose this is what the information age is all about.

The kids then decide to stop playing badminton and instead announce loudly that they shall play “Colour Colour”. This announcement is followed by wide flourishes in the air with the racquets and the two girls in the group do a little bit of a hop and a skip in glee. I didn’t know what “Colour Colour” was all about, so I stayed on at the balcony overlooking this plan.

One of the boys, dressed in dark maroon shorts, a chequered tiny half-sleeve shirt and a colourful Mickey Mouse adorned watch (at least it looked like Mickey Mouse to me), moved away from the group, looked around, closed his eyes and said “Ok, ready.”

One of the girls screams out “Green”. And the boy shakes his head and says “No”

“Blue”
“No”

Red”
“No”

“Pink”
“No”

“Orange”
“No”

A little hop and a skip by one of the girls and then the guessing resumes.

“White”
“Yeah”, the kid smiles and feels sheepishly disappointed.

So that was what “Colour Colour” was all about. The other party had to guess what colour this boy had in his mind. While to you and me it might seem that it is so easy to fake by just changing the colour in your mind all the time, it wasn’t quite the case for these kids. They were honest in admitting what colour they had in their minds. Nice and simple. Perhaps just how life should be.

A couple of rounds into this game and now it is the little hopping girl’s turn. She thinks for a few seconds and says the customary “Ok. Ready”. The other 3 guess perhaps at least 20 colours between them but to no avail. This one is a tough one to crack and now even I start thinking of all the colours that I know of.

The 3 are now tired of guessing and they just don’t know any more colours. So they ask the girl to reveal what is the colour in her mind.
To this, she says, “Transparent” and starts doing her hopping and skipping bit in a victorious manner. The kids were not quite sure what to make of it and the little boy attempted to start an argument but stopped soon after the others readily agreed to this “colour”.

Transparent! I couldn’t help but smile. Technically this might not be right but I don’t really care. I was amazed at the amount of intelligence that these kids had at such a young age. After a few rounds of this game, they just sit down on the side of the street and start chatting in general.

The hopping and skipping girl overhears someone call her a copy cat. And she raises her badminton racquet in a gesture asking the others to keep quiet.
And then she says, “Do you know why there is a word called copy cat?”
The others just shrug, with the little boy dismissing the question by looking away from the group.

The little girl goes on to explain – “See, a cat does meow
“Now, any other cat also always does meow and nothing else. So, all cats say meow. Therefore every cat is copying each other. That is why the word copy cat.”

The rest of the kids, except the little boy, acknowledge this sudden enlightenment with a joint “Yeah, you are right”.
The boy stands up, holding the badminton racquet in one hand, and says “What ok? A dog does bow-bow and every other dog also does bow-bow. Why is it not copy dog then?”

The other 3 kids submerged his question by shouting at him and saying he doesn’t know anything. The boy just turned around and started walking up the street, dragging the racquet along with him. The little girl did a hop and a skip and the other 2 kids started doing the same.

I was done with my tea and turned around, picked up the magazine from the balcony floor and went right back inside. The things I had just overheard were far more interesting than reading the current affairs magazine, which I promptly flung on to the corner table. And then suddenly,without any warning, a feeling of being quite old in this world came over me. This world which was teeming with bright ideas and brighter questions. There was a time in my youth and early professional life when a few veterans had to make way for youthful employees like me. And it dawned on me on that Sunday afternoon that not too far from now, there would be a time when I shall have to move over and make way for something more fresh and more inquizitive. Heck, I am still on the better side of 30, managing to cling on, but I do know deep inside that the inevitable will catch up soon. The kids outside return, start playing something and then get into an argument. That brings the smile back on my face for no apparent reason. Perhaps the inevitable is not to be feared or protested against. Perhaps.

Filed under Education, General, Interesting, Killing time, Life, Looking around, Past, street children, Thoughts, Weekend · 13 Comments »

July 10, 2008 @ 6:03 am

The cycle

A not-so-routine office break when I had to step out to meet someone. I get out of my office and wait on a side of the main road, looking at the traffic hurl by with frequent honking and engine sounds; the dust and pollution giving the entire place a pleasant looking gray haze.

A group of four small kids appear from the other side of the road. One of them is on a dilapidated small bicycle, struggling to ride on it while the other three are tugging the rider’s shirt and bursting frequently into laughter. The kid on the cycle looks a little older, but not more than 9 or 10 years old. Wearing a vest considerably torn and by-now-khaki-coloured shorts, he manages to trudge his bicycle along with the others. They are all in rags, seeming to give more of a uniform look of their not so good economic status. But that was just in my eyes. They, amidst themselves, were the happiest lot of kids I have seen in recent times.

Looking to avoid the traffic, the group prances about and runs across the road, dodging the bikes and trucks deftly. They get on to the side where I am still waiting. A little ahead of me is a coconut water seller, selling the coconuts on a hand cart. The kids, still in a blissful and seemingly anticipatory state, run towards the cart. The cycle is dragged along too. Once at the cart, the eldest one jumps off the cycle, letting it fall on the dusty road. He rummages through the used and cut coconut shells. After a bit of searching, he removes his hand from the pile of shells holding two neatly cut coconut halves. Although the water in them is long gone, consumed by some passerby, the thin layer of coconut is still clinging on to the inner walls of the shell. The boy takes this and gives it to one of the younger looking kids. He then goes back into the pile, and almost magically, produces another set of shells which have some eating matter left. I watch this process as he retrieves one by one used shells and gives it to the remaining kids. The coconut seller doesn’t seem to care and continues to serve his other customers.

The kids then sit down and start scraping the whitish brown coconut from the shells, scraps of it finding their way instantly into their respective hungry mouths. The laughter and bliss overflows all around and the cycle lying side-down at their feet watches passively. The meal is finished just as quickly it was started. The eldest one picks up the cycle, puts the younger one on it, and all of them start their prancing and dancing way of walking as they go back to wherever they had come from. All the while tugging each other’s torn clothes and breaking into a laughter which didn’t seem to care much about the world around.

Filed under General, Life, Looking around, street children, Traffic · 1 Comment »

June 12, 2008 @ 9:50 pm

A bank for street children, run by street children! Huh, say that again?? Yes, that’s true! There is a bank in Delhi that is run by and for street children.

Aided by a local charity, this “bare-bone” bank, just like its clients, provides a haven for these rag pickers and street hawkers to stash their meagre earnings for safe-keeping. In the absence of such a mechanism, these earnings are easily lost in thefts, smoking and drug addictions. The kind of lifestyle these kids lead is just not amenable for saving up!

According to this well-written article, there are more than 10 million such kids on the streets of India. Most of these children have fled their homes to escape abuse and poverty, and come to metros like Delhi, just to relive their horrors. Not only does the Children’s Development Bank teach valuable lessons in saving and planning to these kids, it also gives them a chance to realise their dreams. They can apply for a loan here once they turn 15, to start their businesses or continue schooling.

You must also read the article to understand the dreams of these children. Whether future doctors or tea stall owners, they might help bring some perspective in our lives, and all that we aim for.

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